Broken hearts gonna make us strong?
Let's understand this in terms of life, not in terms of trends, morality or who is right or wrong?
Just simply understand it in terms of Life.
As we all know, our body has a tremendous amount of memory.
Memory of different kinds of levels like genetic, conscious and unconscious memories.
Like the way we touch, feel and relate to anything this all consumes memories within ourselves.
And when you break this kind of memories with your loved one then let's see what the mechanism we are going through.
The mechanism consists that you have added your emotions, your thoughts and your body one you invested thing these are profound set of memories about your loved one.
At that stage you feel like you have nothing instead of you are having everything.
Your mental health is a priority over any friendship or relationship.
Emotions are supposed to be raw, ugly, and brutal.
You don't want to "sorta" love you.
If you lose someone and find yourself, You won, isn't it?
Never forget how far you have come, everything you have gotten through.
All the times you have pushed even when you felt you couldn't.
All the mornings you got out of bed no matter hard it was.
All the times you wanted to give up but you got through another day.
Never forget how much strength you have learned and developed.
Whenever you get out of a toxic relationship or any kind of relationship you shared with your loved one.
Don't forget that this is not a half of life that you need someone to fulfilled.
Remember one thing, this is full of life, you just have to love yourself more than anything else.
In the first period of break up, it's lonely.
In the beginning, it's hard.
For a little while, it even hurts the most.
But after a certain amount of time, you will definitely gonna be embraced yourself and find its empowering.
Then you gonna love your vibe because you know your worth.
You will slowly learn this healing process like even if you react it won't change anything, it won't make people suddenly to love and respect you.
It won't magically change their minds.
Sometimes it's better to let just things be, let people go, don't fight for closure, don't ask for explanations, don't chase answers and don't expect people to understand where you are coming from.
You gonna learn slowly that life is better lived when you don't center on what's happening around you and center it on what's happening inside you instead.
Work on yourself and your inner peace.
Just understand how all these things work.
Allowing people inside your life is a beautiful thing, letting go of people who drain your spirit is another beautiful thing you can do for any life.
The key to being happy is knowing you have the power to choose what to accept and what to let go.
Resilience is accepting your new reality,
Even if it's less good than one you had before.
You can't do anything but scream about what you have lost or you can accept that and try to put together something that's good for you.
For, after all, the best thing one can do when it's raining just let it rain.
You couldn't relieve your life, skipping the awful parts, without losing what made it worthwhile.
You had to accept it as a whole like the world or the person you loved.
And one day someone says you, come with me, let's getaway I will try to put back the pieces others tried to take away.
Because the older you get, the more you realize you have no desire for drama, conflict and any kind of intensity.
You just want a cozy home, a nice book and as a person who knows how you drink your coffee.
So before you touch and involve yourself in anything, you must see what his level of involvement you see?
Where did you wanna take this?
You also see what kind of different impact will have upon you?
Whether this works well for your life? Or work against you?
You must see the mechanism and don't forget that you come alone and you go alone.
Trust me, if you lose someone, but find yourself, you WON.
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